Have you suddenly realized that the sexual energy between you and your partner have either slightly or significantly decreased? If that’s your case then you don’t need to worry about anything. I have the perfect solution for that!
Revive Your Inner Flirt
Once you’ve spent a lot of time with someone you stop doing certain things. One of the most common things people eventually stop doing in their relationship is flirting. Rekindling the moments where you would flirt are a perfect way to increase sexual energy. If you have no idea what to do first then I suggest trying something on that you know your significant other finds very attractive on you. Also, while you’re talking to your significant other you can try doing things like touching or caressing their skin etc.
Show A Little Skin
A little flash of skin when no one else is looking is fine, and definitely gives your sexual energy level a boost! You can also do this with photos, if you’re careful and discreet. And consider choosing outfits for dates with your significant other that are a bit sexier than your standard attire. For example, I have a couple of outfits I wouldn’t wear to work or church, but do wear when just the two of us go out.
Spend Some “Down Time” Together
It’s really hard to maintain high sexual energy if you’re both running from one activity to another all day, every day. And it’s doubly hard if you’re both connected to your phone, tablet or laptop most of the time. So figure out a way to spend some “down time” together, when you can unwind a bit and enjoy each other’s company. It doesn’t have to be an official date, it can be something as simple as watching a movie or having a glass of wine together. Or doing something a little bit adventurous together.
Engage In Public Displays Of Affection
It’s really okay for married couples to show a bit of sexual affection at home and in public. So give him a real kiss in the kitchen, sit on his lap once in a while, pat him on the butt, put your hand in the back pocket of his jeans. Your kids may moan and complain, but they really like knowing that their parents are still into each other.
Open Up Avenues Of Sexy Communication
Introduce some sexual innuendo into day-to-day communication with your husband. It can take the form of sexy texts or emails, a quick comment during a phone call, or a whispered reminder. I must be a slow learner because I didn’t realize until a couple of years ago that married couples can sext each other! But indeed they can! Use sexier words than you normally use, keeping it fun and flirty. If the idea makes you uncomfortable, start with something mild and work your way up to something steamier over time. (Source: calmhealthysexy.co).